WHAT PHRASES CAN RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS? WHY?

By: Jessica R Bunevacz
When I give advice to my girls I often say not to use the “F” word to your spouse or partner because it does not sound very lady like and that shows you don’t respect your partner

Constant nagging such as..
“ Are you ever going to clean your shit ?”
“ When do you plan to take extra more time at work, We need to pay a lot of bills”
“ Where did you go last night”?

Insult
“ I wish you can do what she/he does”
*Why can’t you dress like her?
*Why can’t you make more money than he does?
*You’re not really smart
*You don’t look as good or beautiful as you were.
*You’re such a pussy
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Berrating – Belittling – Sarcasm

“ You’re such high maintenance “
*You look like shit all the time”
” You are crazy”

These four important phrases are the ones I feel that you should avoid saying to your partner.

TURNING DOWN SEX ( for both)
Saying I am not in the mood or I don’t feel like making love tonight, or not tonight, ( Often ) constant rejection can make your partner feel like you are not interested in him/her or you probably have someone else that your having sex with. Which for most women these things can drive us crazy or for men it can hurt their ego which makes them look for attention and sex from someone else .

CURSING
Try to avoid this. Even if you are the type of person that cusses all the time try not do this to the person you love. It’s just very disrespectful and this can cause your partner to slowly hate you and also loose his or her respect towards you.

YOU ARE CRAZY ( to a woman)
I get it women are crazy sometimes but men do not have to constantly say that to a woman because it just drives women more crazy. You don’t call her “crazy” or any other name that has sarcasm to it. Trust me it will not help your woman and she won’t appreciate it. She will develop anger towards you, Instead give your woman some love and talk to her. Women need to be loved.

I WISH YOU ACT LIKE HIM or I WISH YOU DO THOSE THINGS TO ME ” ( To a man)
Never compare your man to another man. That is a big NO NO. This phrase will hurt your man’s ego. Men are very egoistic and insecure. Comparing them to another man will build resentment towards you. Instead give him accolades and tell him the things you don’t like about him in a very subtle way or sweet way.
Men needs so much respect from men.

“I FEEL LIKE IM WALKING ON EGGSHELLS”
One’s you hear this from your partner it means your relationship is in jeopardy. It meant he or she has been keeping this from you and has developed discontentment or resentment towards you. It meant she or he isn’t happy with the situation and it has to be resolved right away because if not then this can eventually end your relationship

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