People say marriage is tough. And based on my experience it is and it’s not a joke. It’s a roller coaster of ups and downs, emotionally, physically even financially. So before you get into this whole commitment. Think about it 100 times because when or if, you end up divorcing your partner, it’s not you who will suffer, it’s going to be your kids.
Post divorce life is very hard. Yes, maybe you left your spouse because of someone else someone younger or someone you think or you believe that he or she is your “ soul mate” which is bull shit! There is no such thing as soul mate. People just make this up as an excuse so they can have an affair. And then you realize after few months or years of being together with that other person, you are not compatible. So it’s either you leave the relationship or go back to your ex wife ( which is impossible) So you end up staying single which you think is good and fun for you. For a while it is but guess what? After a while it is not fun anymore. As you’ve all heard from Morris’s interview it gets lonely at times because it’s just hard to start over again with the whole dating scene, the trust issue, and you have to make sure that you are or will be dating someone that will love you for who you are. And to make sure that they will treat your children like their own.
I am very passionate about this because I’ve seen men waste their marriage and family to satisfy their desire. It is being selfish. And I hate that. I have so much more to say about this but we can continue on the next post.
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